Since I interviewed him for my book Crazy Little Thing: Why Love & Sex Drive Us Mad, Dr. Joseph Shrand has been one of my favorite experts to consult for stories and, on a personal basis, just a joy to talk to. He's terrific at explaining concepts, making one feel at ease and saying the kinds of things that seem so simple and true you wonder why someone had to say it to you for you to get it. One of my favorites - and a key to his latest book - is "When was the last time you got angry at someone who you believed was treating you with respect?" Answer: you don't. And in his book Outsmarting Anger: 7 Strategies for Defusing Our Most Dangerous Emotion he explains why that is, where anger comes from, how it works chemically in the brain and how you can combat it - in yourself and other people - by very simply changing the chemistry of the situation using nothing but your own behavioral strategies. I got to talk to Dr. Shrand about the book and write about it on