I'm Just Not That Into Me


Not into me from Liz Langley on Vimeo.

Before you check out my take on that exhausted catchphrase “He’s Just Not That Into You” I want to share something I didn’t have time for in the video, which is that Dr. Ian Kerner, best-selling author, sex therapist and super nice guy, wrote what I consider a FAR SUPERIOR book on the subject of moving on called “Be Honest – You’re Not That Into Him Either.” If your romantic expectations are doing a number on you check out Dr. Kerner’s book…right after you check out my video, of course. J

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  1. ValFebruary 27, 2009 at 6:25 AM

    I agree, Liz - it's amazing how one little thought-provoking catchphrase from Sex and the City has turned into a pop-culture industry! I'll admit that I'm a little curious about the movie ... but will wait to see the highlights on youtube.com.

    Oh, and I loved your line about how "I can't get out of there fast enough, and I never call!" That, combined with the coy hair flip at the end, made me laugh out loud. Great stuff!

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  2. AnonymousFebruary 27, 2009 at 8:31 AM

    Very clever! "And I never call." And I love that you laugh at the end !
    xoxo

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  3. Lara DienFebruary 27, 2009 at 4:34 PM

    "I think I should find someone more into me than I am" ... but perhaps not TOO much more into you ... about the time you want to be the center of someone's world you find that he a) doesn't have a life or b) has done time for stalking!

    Just sayin' :)

    Lara

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  4. chas_mFebruary 27, 2009 at 5:51 PM

    "I can't wait to get out of there" -- lol!

    You must know that there is a small cadre of people who are more into you than you seem to be. Just leave em hanging, I say, till you get to the point where you're president of your own fan club. Look at me, for gosh sakes -- even Heather has to compete against ME for "who loves me most?" :)

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