Liz in Alternet: Why Wait for Sex?


When I say I’ve found the connection between pumpkins and sex, please don’t take it to mean anything involving their simultaneous use.
Yes, Beavis, we can all imagine the possibilities. But this isn’t about gourd eroticism. This is about waiting. 

Pumpkin is seasonal; you have to wait for it in as much as you have to wait for anything in modern America, besides Downton Abbey or a kidney. 
Well, you don’t have to wait.  You can have pumpkin pie on July 4th…it’s just better around the fireplace than the swimming pool. Timing matters.

And that’s what pumpkin and sex have in common. You can jump right in but if you hold off for a just-right moment it can be that much better. I’m so proud of this story on Alternet, A Surprising Way to Amp Up Sexual Satisfaction, that talks about how age and experience have given me the ability to take my time in a way that my younger, scared-to-miss-anything self wasn’t so great at. 

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